We don't do a good job in New Zealand of facing the reality of men's violence against women.
But the Justice Minister says it can't be banned.
The trial of the man who murdered Grace Millane was frequently focused on her sexual history.
UK families who have loved ones murdered in the UK or EU countries can apply for a payout
After nearly a year, her family finally got justice.
It says the 'rough sex gone wrong' defence is incredibly concerning.
"I want to find out from them where they think things are at."
Police say it's still an offence to name him on social media.
"Many people would say that effectively blackens her character."